Testing......

Something I cant stand is the dehumanization of others, and yes I'm guilty of it just like the next guy however, there are levels to everything. On a daily basis we forget that individuals like ourselves are HUMAN. They were packaged with feelings, senses and intellect, so be careful with shipping and handling, and I get it. We don't like everyone, we can't be friends with everyone and we can't change them.So you either accept or move on. Save yourself and your sanity but don't act as if they're beneath you , hell and even you out there struggling with that inferiority complex, brush it off, they're not above you either. You're on your own level moving at your own pace and so remind yourself.Get a vision board. Write it  in your planner. Make it your screensaver. I stress this because there are people out there with genuine issues and then pour it out on the guy who's just minding his business, probably wearing a yellow shirt, and you don't like yellow and so in your eyes he's an idiot because who likes yellow right?  Guess who, him! He doesn't even see you fam , get over yourself. I think this is HUGE issues in society, and earlier this year a friend of mine expressed this to me, at first I didn't get why she was so caught up in because it's just human nature right? Right, until I got a dose of it for myself, and if you're in the same circle with someone like that, sitting beside them in class, or just travelling the same route as them so you see them often, baby switch it up. Distance yourself. You don't even have to cut them off, or stop talking to them, there doesn't need to be unnecessary tension, just lessen contact and you'll be fine. Find your own methods of doing so , of course.  So if you need to know if you're dealing with this, complete the following test,

1. Are you constantly arguing with someone in your life, the exception being your mom?
2. Do you feel drained when you spend too much time with someone in your life?
3.Does it feel like you're constantly being picked on?
4. Has someone been constantly trying to impose their views on you while disregarding yours?
5. Do you feel disrespected by someone?

Now, if a specific someone has popped up in your mind after reading each question, honeyyyyy  you better get  a measuring tape and check if you're distancing yourself enough, or just get a scissors.

-Never put the comfort of another over oneself- 

TwistedMB